Sorry that I can't help with the NCer's hangout around SA, but I sure hope you have tried the "County Line" restaurant for BBQ! Can't say too much for their pork, but they had great brisket and ribs (for a restaurant - still can't compete with good competition Q!).
Good luck!
Tom (aka "Another_Q_Lover" & "BBQ.TOM")
CMJ w/ KCBS
CBJ w/ MBN, NCPC, NCBS, & NCBBQA
OBJ w/ BBQ Critic.com
CTC w/ KCBS
Pitmaster and Chef - 4 Lil' Pigs Competition Barbecue Team
Author of "A 'Q' Review"